i completely understand this. but i am also guilty of this. i was always the one that was told things, but nobody would ever listen to me. so when i finally had the chance to speak up myself, i wanted to be heard. i wanted my issues out there for once and i wanted people to listen to me for a change. at the time, it was what i needed. but it shouldn’t be all of the time.

(Source: spilling-guts)